We often try to skirt the tough questions in life. We justify avoiding those questions with fear and self doubt. What do I really want in life? Am I happy as a person? Am I living my best life? Am I happy with my career? Am I happy with my relationship? You don’t necessarily have to ask the tough questions and then expect to dive off the edge. Just be aware of yourself. Don’t live a lie.
I try to live day by day. In the past I spent tons of time pondering my past, thinking of the future. When you spend too much time thinking about the end result you lose sight of the journey it will take to get there and you end up going nowhere. While it is important to visualize where you want to be, don’t obsess over it. Do what you can today, focus your energy on what you can control. You cannot control the past, you cannot instantly attain the results you crave. I recommend setting a plan daily on things you can grasp in your hands and work on today. Keep a vision board that way you always have a clear idea of where you are heading.
We often want to dull our mind with life and routine but don’t forget to ask yourself the tough questions. Time moves quickly and the older you get that is more real, so everyday be in tune with yourself. Always think for yourself.
I am not a self help guru, I am Jay Schiller. Who am I? I am just another imperfect human being, I don’t have all the answers you need. I am daily learning about myself and life. I write this blog as a way to express myself and continue on my path of self discovery. I thank each and every one of you who has taken the time out of their day to read my blog. I invite you to subscribe to this blog, bookmark this site and support me in the journey. Leave comments if you feel inspired and lets all make the decision to be architects of our lives. Living our best life is something we can all do on an individual basis. You are in charge, don’t forget that.